The Strange Logic of Progress

From Control, to Curiosity

Sometimes our efforts only make things worse.We rush to fix the problem.
We tense up.
We try harder.But often the struggle is the trap.This book explores a simple but unintuitive shift at the heart of how life, learning, science, and even emotions improve:Progress begins not with control, but with curiosity.

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Introduction

The Bird At the Window

A bird sees its reflection in the glass.
It mistakes it for a rival.
Each strike makes the rival seem stronger.
Every collision confirms the need to fight again.From the outside, we can see the futility.
The bird is not trapped by another creature, but by itself.This is what it means to be caught in a reflection.
The harder we fight, the more convincing the reflection becomes.
The more effort we put in, the tighter the trap closes.
The reflection cuts us off from the wider signals all around.
The bird could turn and see trees, air, and open sky,
but its attention is consumed by the false signal in the window.

Our Reflections

Humans fall into the same trap.
An argument is the simplest example.
Each strike at an opponent invites a counter-strike,
and the reflection builds momentum of its own.
Instinct traps us in a conflict neither side wanted.“You always…”
“No, you’re wrong…”Frustration becomes grievance,
grievance leads to certainty,
until dislike hardens into aggression.These reflections don’t stop at home.
A community’s grievance reflected by a leader becomes a movement.
The movement causes alarm, which provokes defence,
which confirms the original grievance.
On and on it goes — each strike bringing another, stronger return.Once you see them, these loops are everywhere —
and not only between people.

Internal Reflections

Just like the bird, we can end up fighting ourselves.Anxiety Spiralling
After sustained anxiety, a thought naturally arises:
Maybe I’m just broken.
That thought feeds the worry, and the spiral tightens.Shame Growing
Ashamed, we try to avoid our problem.
But suppression only increases our fear of it,
and the shame grows.Exhausting and self-reinforcing,
both are a bird at the window.

The Reversal

So what breaks the reflection?
The bird does have a real problem —
but it isn’t the rival in the glass.
The problem is its own efforts to fight.The same is often true for us.
Our difficulty is not the perceived threat,
but our own attempts to overcome it.What helps is not more action,
but something deceptively simple: a pause.
Turn the threat into information.
Stay calm. Allow it.
Perceive it. Exist with it.
Build confidence in our ability simply to remain.We often convince ourselves that the responsible thing is to take a threat seriously —
that attacking it is the adult thing to do.The intuitive path is control — take action!
The strange but liberating path is curiosity — let’s just… wait…

Making Error Safe

The lesson is simple but easily missed.
Without it, we fall into the same traps again and again —
locked into lifetimes of striking at reflections.What the bird teaches us is the same truth every system must learn:
to progress, it must make error safe.This is a lesson we have already learned:
• Dictatorships eliminate dissent. Democracy protects it.
• Dogma attacks criticism. Science seeks it.From condemning error to making it safe.
From control to curiosity.Like the bird, we are only trapped by reflections.
The sky is still there, waiting.

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The Strange Logic of Progress

From Control To Curiosity

The Journey Through the Book …

Section I – The Strange Logic

Part 1 – The Trap
How our instincts can get us stuckPart 2 – The Strange Logic of Progress
The logical solution to the trap

Section II – Where This Comes From

Part 3 – Learning Creatures
Rethinking human nature in the age of artificial learningPart 4 – The Source of Error
Why our errors aren’t random — they’re predictablePart 5 – The Discovery of Ignorance
How science and democracy learned to learn

Section III – Applying Error Correction

Part 6 – The Logic of Error-Correction
How system improve when error becomes speakablePart 7 – The Logic Of the Human Condition
What it means to be a learning creature under pressure

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